18 Tweetable Secrets to Make Your Dating Life Better

18 Tweetable Secrets to Make Your Dating Life Better

Posted By: Kelly Seal Date: 10-19-2016 Comments: 0

It’s no cliche – dating can be an emotional roller coaster. Sometimes you are excited about meeting someone new; the thrill of a great first date can send your heart soaring. On the flip side, there is also the possibility of disappointment if a budding romance doesn’t work out. Maybe he doesn’t text back in a timely manner or  with any consistency. Perhaps you have a string of dates that are awful or downright uninspiring. This can make dating feel more like a struggle than a hopeful pursuit.

When your dating life starts to feel difficult, it’s good to gain some perspective. It can be a lot more fun with the right approach and a good attitude. (Sometimes, this is easier said than done!) We all have the potential to make our love lives better, but at times we need a little help. Instead of a typical advice post, we’ve decided to share some tweetable secrets for inspiration.

Following are tips to make your dating life better and help you gain a fresh perspective.

Confidence and individuality are sexy.

#Confidence isn’t about how you look or how well you #flirt, it’s about embracing yourself fully, and not being afraid to be who you are.

“Be who you are and say what you mean. Because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss #dating

Don’t settle for someone who won’t allow you to be yourself. You are an original. #dating #relationships

Know what you want, but more importantly, know your worth. There’s nobody else quite like you. #dating #relationships

“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.” – Maya Angelou #relationships #dating

Confidence isn’t about how successful or talented you might be, but how you operate in the world. Invite people in, don’t shut them out.

Optimism is key to dating successfully.

If you aren’t sure, it’s best to say yes to a second date. Most #happy couples didn’t experience #love at first sight – but fall in love over time.

Ask yourself: “How does he make me FEEL when I’m with him?” Not “How do I WANT him to act, look, or be?”

#Dating is a process that takes time. Know that with every bad date you are closer to meeting the right person for you. #love

Don’t try the same old coffee #date. Instead, go for a walk in a new neighborhood. Try a new activity. Make it fun. #dating

It’s important to feed your own happiness before you go looking for someone else to do it for you. Pamper yourself by doing something fun.

Every day, think of something that makes you grateful. #Gratitude about what you already have is the key to happiness.

Keep a sense of humor and playfulness.

Don’t overanalyze your first date conversation like a therapist. It’s not an interview, but a #date.

Body language counts. It’s not what you say but what you DON’T say that allows chemistry between two people – #leanin and flirt.

Laughter brings people together. If you aren’t feeling chemistry right away, lighten the mood to see if there’s a spark.

Try something spontaneous with your date, like eating new food or a bike through the park. It breaks the ice.

Don’t take yourself so seriously, especially #dating. Let your date be himself without judging and let the magic unfold. Mystery is sexy.

Love and happiness in relationships exist. When you cultivate more of it in your own life, you’ll attract it to you.